The wonderful gift of Christmas (Neale)

.. this is the eve of the birth of the Christ as you.

It is a re-birth, of course, for the Christ has always been
there. On this special eve, may you experience that
Presence in you, as you, through your sharing of the
love that has been brought to you directly from God.

The wonderful gift of Christmas is that it is not a one
day or one time experience, but lasts the whole year
through -- thanks to you. You are the gift, and as
you give, so shall you receive.

Neale
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Fear

Do not think that the fear is the escape from FEAR!

  A Course In Miracles

Peace and strength

Worrying does not empty tomorrow of its troubles, it empties today of its peace and strength.

It is never late ( Shams Tabrizi )

image: Christian Weiss 

...to ask yourself “Am I ready to change my life, am I ready to change myself?”. 

However old we are, whatever we went through, it is always possible to reborn. 

If each day is a copy of the last one, what a pity! 

Every breath is a chance to reborn. 

But to reborn into a new life, you have to die before dying.

~ Shams Tabrizi

Be good to yourself (Neale)

...you must be good to yourself if you are
ever going to be any good for others.

This means take a day off once in a while
when it's not scheduled.  Eat of piece of chocolate
when it's not recommended.  Take a nap
when it's just not possible.

Get your face into a good book for an hour
when you can't afford to. Soak in a tub
when there's no time to. Stop everything
when you're not supposed to. Do this now,
right now, for goodness sake.

Love,  Your Friend ... Neale

To be beautiful....

To be beautiful means to be yourself.
You don't need to be accepted by others.
You need to accept yourself.

What if ?

Focus on what is possible!

Sean Stephenson 3 Foot Giant

Be your own happiness!

If your happiness depends on your children being happy, that makes them your hostages. So stay out of their business, stop using them for your happiness, and be your own happiness. And that way you are the teacher for your children: someone who knows how to live a happy life
Byron Katie

"But" or "And"?

"Our words are very powerful. The words we use are reflective of our unconscious choices (whether we like them or not).

 So when we use the word "but" we are actually *limiting* our opportunities to succeed and be happy in life.

 "I love him, but hate it when he leaves the toilet seat up."

 "I love my job, but I wish I had more money."

 The examples can go on forever. Unconsciously, the word "but" creates a separation between the two things we're talking about. This separation, this split, ultimately causes us some psychological stress internally (often unconscious).

 In the examples above, it can show up as a frustration with the man, the toilet seat, the job, the money... or even all of them! It can lead us to unconsciously self-sabotage our efforts at success and happiness. Maybe not in huge ways, but at least in little ways.

 We may not not even understand why we feel frustrated or "slightly agitated." This is the nature of feeling separate from things. It causes disharmony. Un-peace. Discontent.

 That's why whenever possible, I use the word "and" to bridge things. For example:

 "I love him AND look forward to connecting with him in ways that he understands why placing the toilet seat down is important to me."

 "I love my job AND am making empowering choices to create more financial abundance in my life."

 You'll notice I didn't just change the word "but" to "and" either. Simply using the word "and" literally orients my brain towards POSSIBILITY. Towards OPPORTUNITY.

 Everything that follows "and" in those sentences orients towards positive empowered thinking.

 "But" is a word that, by its very nature, is limiting. "But" actually orients our brains towards scarcity, limitation, and even fear.

 "And" by its very nature is expanding and inclusive.

 From now on, whenever you find yourself about to use the word "but" pause for a moment and ask yourself a simple question:

"What other words express my sentiments more positively?"

 Chances are, you'll be able to find an "and" in there somewhere."

 Chris Cade

Love and power

“The day the power of love overrules the love of power, the world will know peace.”
― Mahatma Gandhi

Find your energy name !

Just for fun... what is your Positive Energy Name? 

Mine is Elegant Success Dancer!

Love (Byron Katie)

Love is action. It's clear, it's kind, it's effortless, and it's irresistible.

Safety and Joy

...safety is not the thing you should look for in the future. Joy is what you should look for.

Security and joy may not come in the same package.
They can...but they also cannot.
There is no guarantee.

If your primary concern is a guarantee of security,you may never experience the truest joys of life.



This is not a suggestion that you become reckless,
but it is an invitation to at least become daring.

Love, Your Friend ... Neale

Abuse

In response to the Pussy Riots girls in Russia and their sentence for abusing God:

The only God that can be abused is the God within. That's the God we abused every time we choose to think negative. Abusing the essential God (Spirit) is self abuse free will is free will the worst humans can do is silly and stupid, God doesn't judge only organized religion and humans judge and punish. Call them silly, stupid and naughty and let them go.

Warren Stagg

Love (Neale)

...  is the center and the core of everything,
and that Self is the place where all love must begin.

Those who love others grandly are those who love
themselves grandly. Those who have a high toleration
and acceptance of others are those who have a high
toleration and acceptance of themselves.

You cannot show another a part of you that you
cannot show yourself. Therefore, begin where all
growth, where all evolution, where all love must begin:
with the person in the mirror.

Will you not love yourself grandly today?
For the world's sake?

Neale

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Letting things go (Neale)

"The greatest kindness is often shown in letting things go. None of us is perfect, but we can all be perfect friends and perfect partners by allowing those that we love to be imperfect."
Neale

A magic bouquet

"It is a reminder that each rose is beautiful by itself as a individual... And as a bouquet, their collective beauty is priceless and their scent far-reaching... The roses are a reminder that the true gift of "E-Quality" is in the choice we make to come together, to create, through our mutual interest in our likeness of Energy Quality."
Anastazya Wada

What you believe...(Byron Katie )

What you believe only seems to be true. Test it.
Byron Katie

Are you important for yourself? (Chris Cade )

Always putting other people first is a sure-fire way to make sure that our dreams go unfulfilled

"Let" is implying that I'm requesting permission to take care of myself. And that's false because I already know I'm going to take care of myself first unless the Present Moment presents an extenuating and immediate reason for me to make a new choice.

For example....
"Ready to talk?"
"Yes. Let me use the restroom first."

The point is simply this:

Use words that consciously convey the exact meaning of the moment. The truth that is here and now. Not the past. Not the future. Only this moment.
 
"I am important to me, and I choose to take care of myself. And I expect you and others to treat me with the same sense of respect and care that I honor myself with."
Choose your words wisely because they are the physical manifestation of your thoughts and beliefs.

Your Partner In Letting "Let" Go,
Chris Cade

Freedom (Gregory David Roberts)

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“It took me a long time and most of the world to learn what I know about love and fate and the choices we make, but the heart of it came to me in an instant, while I was chained to a wall and being tortured. I realised, somehow, through the screaming of my mind, that even in that shackled, bloody helplessness, I was still free: free to hate the men who were torturing me, or to forgive them. It doesn’t sound like much, I know. But in the flinch and bite of the chain, when it’s all you’ve got, that freedom is an universe of possibility. And the choice you make between hating and forgiving, can become the story of your life.”

Gregory David Roberts, Shantaram

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Speak your truth with peace (Neale)

...you may speak your truth, but soothe your words
with peace.

Tell your truth as soon as you know it. Yet tell it gently,
kindly, and with compassion for the hearer. Someone
needs to hear the truth from you today... but that person
also needs your deep compassion as you speak it.

Seek to say what needs to be said with softness, and
with a wide open heart. Remember, the truth can hurt...
but it hurts a lot less if you care how it feels while
saying it.

The biggest question in life (Neale)

How much good can you accept?

Good is flowing to you every day.  How much of it
you experience depends on how much of it you can
accept. And how much of it you can accept depends
upon how 'worthy' you believe that you are.

God, of course, knows the answer to this. You are
worthy of all the good in the Universe.
How about you? Do you believe that?

You will not have to think but a second to know
exactly why you received this message today.

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YOUR MISTAKES ARE BEHIND YOU ( Yehuda Berg )

 It’s hard to make the most of today when we are still carrying the burden of guilt from our past. That’s why it’s so important to find the lesson and then to let it go.

 Your mistakes are already behind you. Learn from them and keep moving forward.

Apreene

Photo:Roy Schönberger

Manfred Clynes called "apreene"-a state of perceptual openness in which they (visual thinkers) "trust that whatever may come into awareness is worthy to be well received and even treasured" (quoted in Curtiss, 1987, p. 218).

What is Muscle Testing?

Simply put, muscle testing is a biofeedback. It is an easy and effective way of getting feedback from the bodymind on how we are doing mentally, emotionally or physically. It can be seen as simple interview tool that gives us access to information.

How does it work?

When the body is compromised or confronted with a stressor, its energy circuits are temporarily disrupted and our muscles can't hold strong - even when the mind is involved. Under stress, our nervous system is compromised and that is reflected in our muscles. When we are doing something enjoyable, our nervous system is resilient and that too is reflected in our muscles.
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Paradise (Byron Katie)

"When you realize that whatever you need is what you get, life becomes paradise."
Byron Katie

After stress releasing session

 As a result, the work goes on long after the session is over. Your bodymind is shifting from one equilibrium to another. A non-conscious part of you knows what’s going on with your health at all times. That’s the part of you that we are dialoguing with. This work requires a willingness on the part of the client to, at times, take a circuitous route to their healing.

The origins of a problem may not always be obvious and may go deeper than is perceivable by the conscious mind.
For example, a shoulder problem may show up as resentment or grief over various responsibilities. While the shoulder pain appears to be physical in nature, the underlying issues that created the problem in the first place may be of mental or emotional origins. A physical problem in the neck might find a connection to dysfunction in the sacrum, which in turn finds it’s origins in the fear of sexual, financial and job related issues, for example.

While it is understandable that we want quick relief from our physical pain, exploring our issues from deeper levels allows us to be more masterful at understanding how we are involved in the origins of the issue, which in turn puts us in the unique position of being the best person to unravel the issue within ourselves.

When trauma is released, you may experience temporary physical or emotional pain which will pass quickly as body and brain tissues resume a more balanced function.

It is not uncommon for a client to have an emotional release days after a session. Some may feel happy, sad, confused or even angry. It is also possible
for some to experience aches and pains while body tissues and energies are adjusting.

When we are under long-term stress, we may not even notice that we idle at a high level of anxiety.  We essentially relax in a 'tense state' because we have got used to being at that set point.

If we have been running on adrenaline for a long time, then coming off adrenalized behavior patterns may feel initially like a withdrawal.  This is not a bad thing.  The body is simply readjusting while our energy returns to a more even state.

The person may be required to perform reinforcement exercises at home and adopt changes to lifestyle.

In this work, we become more friendly with ourselves and the world.
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Come to the edge (Appollinaire)

"Come to the edge" he said,
"We can't, we are afraid" they said,
"Come to the edge"
"We can't, we will fall"
"Come to the edge"
...

and they came
and he pushed them
and they flew.

~ Guillaume Appollinaire